abuse 

From 22 Jun: Should Your Drama Prove Sincere - We all have an obligation to ourselves first. We have an obligation to put the oxygen mask on our own face first. We have an obligation to consciously decide how to spend our time and energy. We have an obligation to enforce our own boundaries. ideatrash.net/2020/06/should-y -abuse

blogging, advice, relationships, sex, love languages, relationship, sexuality 

From 05 Nov: The Validity of Libido as a Love Language - When “physical touch“ gets called “libido“, a whole different set of assumptions and judgements gets pulled into the mix. ideatrash.net/2019/11/the-vali languages

The Validity of Libido as a Love Language
When "physical touch" gets called "libido", a whole different set of assumptions and judgements gets pulled into the mix.
ideatrash.net/2019/11/the-vali

Faith Collapsing

Faith Collapsing is a host set up by me (Steven Saus) with the same sensibility of the BBS I ran back in the 1990s - I set it up for me, but folks I personally know are welcome to join if they like.