From 23 Sep: What I Learned From Being Sucker-Punched By A Brain Weasel - I was utterly taken by surprise by a brain weasel; this is how we defeated in, in detail. -weasel -non-monogamy


From 17 Sep: Groove Is In The Mind (And Behavior) - Repairing those grooves is like spackling with a spork, with no level in sight. -health -doubt -help


From 25 May: Biology Is Not Respect: Something To Consider Before Pride - Straight people don’t have to justify themselves by invoking “biology“; why should anyone have to? +


From 07 Mar: For When Giving Reasons For Turning A Guy Down Backfires - Sometimes, giving a reason gets you the opposite effect than you want. This is one possible reason why.

From 13 Dec: The One Where My Mom Hunts (Brain) Weasels - Brain weasels show up in all sorts of places, but anyone can hunt them. -weasel -improvement


From 06 Dec: Can Monogamous Folks Use Advice For Polyamorous Folks? - I’ve been asked this a few times IRL lately, so... -non-monogamy


From 10 Nov: You Can’t Judge Someone Else’s Boundaries – Or Whether They Will Pay Your Price of Admission - You can set your boundaries and price of admission without judgment. You also can’t judge others who don’t want to pay that price. -of-admission

From 01 Nov: Getting Out of Maslow’s Basement in Working Order - Fair warning here folks: I’m struggling with this topic myself. I think I’m thinking clearly, but I’m still reeling from recent events, and want to be up front about that. I’m just a guy with an opinon. -update -health

From 23 Jun: Excuses, Motivations, and When They Don’t Matter - Someone’s motivation completely matters in relationships. Someone’s motivation can also be completely irrelevant. -of-admission

From 23 Mar: I Want You to Grow, But Will You Leave Me Behind? - “If you love something, let it go,” they say. And I used to think that was the silliest...

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Faith Collapsing

Anti-bigot, anti-fascist, pro-privacy, pro-science, pro-wierdo, pro-freaks.