From 23 Jun: Excuses, Motivations, and When They Don’t Matter - Someone’s motivation completely matters in relationships. Someone’s motivation can also be completely irrelevant. -of-admission

From 23 Mar: I Want You to Grow, But Will You Leave Me Behind? - “If you love something, let it go,” they say. And I used to think that was the silliest...

From 14 Mar: Being Exposed to Toxic Relationship Memes Can Warp Your Romantic Outlook - It’s been long established that human beings are social learners — and part of how they... -for-the-weekend -monogamy

From 25 Feb: The Biggest Relationship Green Flag There Is - You know, when it comes to dating advice, people tend to overly focus on red flags — negative... -flags -management -flags -control

From 09 Mar: Curation as Love Language: “Here’s Your Kind of Trash” - “Apparently everyone is talking about Harry and Meghan’s interview with Oprah, in case ... -curiosity -culture

From 05 Mar: Nothing Hurts More Than Someone Turning Your Vulnerabilities Against You - It has to be my least favorite kind of moment. Every time it’s ever happened is still seared ...

From 06 Feb: The Inevitable Futility of Wishing on Stars - It doesn’t matter how much you wish. The narcissist will not change. It’s up to you. -abuse

From 13 Nov: Relationships Are Not Rent Controlled - There are no contracts stating the price of admission, and that’s okay. -of-admission

From 02 Nov: Red Flags to Watch Out for When You Start Dating Someone - The early days of dating someone new can be wonderful. You’re getting to know someone, learni... -picks -dating -gps -day


From 22 Jun: Should Your Drama Prove Sincere - We all have an obligation to ourselves first. We have an obligation to put the oxygen mask on our own face first. We have an obligation to consciously decide how to spend our time and energy. We have an obligation to enforce our own boundaries. -abuse

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Faith Collapsing

Faith Collapsing is a host set up by me (Steven Saus) with the same sensibility of the BBS I ran back in the 1990s - I set it up for me, but folks I personally know are welcome to join if they like. Left-leaning; fascists will not be happy with my moderation. Incitements to violence or hate speech will get you gone.